THE MINDSET SHIFT THAT WILL HELP YOU TO CALL IN THE ONE.
The following shift is a
GAME-CHANGER.
It helped me end a very unhealthy 5-year relationship and eventually call in THE ONE.
My mission is to revolutionize the way you approach + experience romantic partnership and love. I want to help your current and future relationships TRHIVE and GROW in ways you don’t even realize are possible because happier, healthier relationships mean more love, more love making, more happy people…and, well, a better overall world. The best way I know how to do this is to share from my own personal experience and from what I learn with my clients.
The following shift is a GAME-CHANGER. ✨
It helped me end a toxic relationship and eventually call in THE ONE:
Shift your mindset from wondering ➡️ “what can my partner can do for me?”
to asking yourself ➡️ “what am I bringing to the table?”
How did this one mindset shift help me to get out of a very unhealthy 5 year off-again on-again relationship and finally call in my perfect partner?
FIRST, a little backstory…
Four years ago I was stuck in a toxic relationship cycle of breaking up and getting back together.
At the time, all I could see was what my partner wasn’t doing, and there were A LOT of things he wasn’t doing. In fact, the more I looked for them, the more I found! Funny how that happens. 😉
I decided that until he made the effort to do what I wanted (and really felt like I needed him to do) in order to feel secure in our relationship, I was going to sit on the sidelines waiting for him to make the first move. In essence, I was checked the F-OUT!
He had done the damage and so he needed to make the effort, not me…sound familiar?? 🚫 🙅🏼♀️
👉🏻 I WAS SO WRONG! 👈🏻
I wasn’t 100% in, so how could I expect him to be??
When I finally realized this, I know that it actually didn’t matter what he was or wasn’t doing…
What really mattered was what I was doing.
MY actions.
And, at the end of the day, that’s really all we can control, ourselves.
When I finally made this realization I was able to ask myself these questions:
How was I contributing to the success of our relationship?
What was I bringing to the table?
Was I doing my best??
My answer: I wasn’t.
If you can show up 100% for your romantic partnership(s) and be totally invested in the health and growth of your relationship NO MATTER WHAT YOUR PARTNER DOES OR DOESN’T DO, then you can’t say that you are giving it your all…and you can’t expect your partner to bring their A-game either.
This does not mean you should stay in a situation that is unsafe, manipulative, or abusive in some way.
⚡️ This means that, hopefully, doing your best will inspire your partner to do the same. ⚡️
They will begin reciprocate your energy. If they don’t, then it might just be time to hit the road. ✌🏼
That’s what I did, and it was the BEST decision of my life to date.
Whether it works and your partner steps up, or it doesn’t and you realize you did your best and it’s time to cut your losses…
You will know that you showed up 100%, did your best, and gave it your all.
You will expanded your capacity for what’s possible in your future relationships.
You will grow in integrity.
AND, you will end an unhealthy relationship dynamic!!
This will make your next relationship(s) even BETTER!
Trust me, I know from experience 😉 💃🏼🕺🏻 I am now in the BEST relationship I have ever experienced and its because I made this mindset shift and changed my ways.
Break those negative habits.
End the cycle now.
It stops with YOU.
